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The Most Important Need

The Most Important Need

Ever had one of those conversations where all you really wanted was for someone to listen—not to fix you or give you advice, but just to understand where you were...

Got Empathy?

Got Empathy?

In Nonviolent Communication, when we teach empathy, we often begin with the phrase: “Are you feeling (insert feeling guess) because you’re needing (insert need guess)?” Students of NVC know this...

The Celebration Game

The Celebration Game

When we begin personal growth work in the present, one of the most important practices is offering compassion to our past selves. We have all experienced pain, trauma, and difficulty...

Observation as Liberation

Observation as Liberation

Of the four components of Nonviolent Communication, I find observation to be both the most challenging and the most liberating. When I describe only what I can directly observe, I’m...

Practicing Empathy with Strangers

Practicing Empathy with Strangers

When I first learned to make empathy guesses using Nonviolent Communication (NVC), it felt awkward and unnatural — almost like learning a foreign language. I would say things to my...

Welcome GROK’s New She-E-O

Welcome GROK’s New She-E-O

Every ending is another beginning. As Christine steps into retirement, a new chapter is unfolding—one I’m delighted to share with you. I’m thrilled to introduce Claire Schwartz as my new...

Celebrating Christine

Celebrating Christine

It’s with bittersweet tenderness and so much gratitude that I’m sharing a big change coming to GROK in 2026: Christine is officially retiring. For those of you who don’t yet...

Grateful for the VIP in Your Life

Grateful for the VIP in Your Life

This New Year, let’s do things a little differently. Instead of making resolutions about what you want to change… How about taking a second to give yourself some appreciations? What’s...